Women I Admire

Women I Admire: Christine Lagarde

When asked at the Women in the World Summit whether women can "have it all", Christine Largarde frankly replied, "No". Managing director of the IMF, twice married and divorced has two sons and is known for her ambition, success, and fashion sense.

A Vogue profile described her as "a planet with a powerful field of gravity, orbiting through the skies of global high finance, the first woman to be in charge of the world’s economy". Her confidence and charm command attention and respect. Her no-nonsense manner is indicative of someone who has risen to power through merit and hard work.

She approaches her roles with respect, but isn't afraid to rethink the status quo and think bigger or different. Her new position has her working in Washington, thousands of miles from her current boyfriend in Marsaille. When asked about the arrangement she replied that he comes to visit one week a month and "frankly, that’s fine with me. I’ll be so busy, it’ll be easier not to have to worry about someone else or argue about dinner or who’s going to take out the rubbish.”

I love her nonsense attitude. You can't have it all, at least not all at the same time. You have to do your best and be perfectly clear about what you want and what you can give. I admire Madame Lagarde because I have a tendency to over think what other people want or expect and don't place a high enough value on just saying and doing what I want. She inspires me to think deeply about what I want and to be unapologetic in my pursuit.

photos courtesy of pure people, Foreign Policy blog

Women I Admire: Tina Fey

Tina Fey is loveably imperfect. I had the pleasure of meeting her on a few occasions when I was working for Zac Posen. She came to the office to find a dress for the Emmy's and in an unprecedented move, took the subway, showed up onetime wearing converse sneakers, and didn't send over any request for coffee or specify what brand of water she wanted. When I went to greet her-- in my mandatory 4" heels, tight skirt, and coifed hair—I had to fight the urge to go all Liz meeting Oprah and gab about the tacos I just ate, the pain of Spanx, and confess my issues with sex.

My brush with Tina Fey greatness and my addiction to 30 rock aside, I admire Tina for satirizing stupidity whether it be political, social or gender expectations. Sometimes it is only through humor and wit, that we can begin to see our own flaws, errors in judgment and ridiculous convictions. For me, Tina Fey has encouraged me to embrace my imperfections. If I'm awkward, or do something socially retarded or eat an entire bag of BBQ chips I just shrug my shoulders and say "I totally just pulled a Liz Lemon".

Unlike her character on 30 Rock, Tina Fey actually does appear to "have it all". She seems to be happily married mother with a killer career. I strive to "pull a Tina" but, when things don't go according to plan, I am happy to be able to laugh when I totally Lemon a situation.

"What bothers me the most is that people say that Hillary Clinton is a bitch. Let me say something about that: Yeah, she is. So am I and so is Amy Poehler. You know what, bitches get stuff done."

Women I Admire

It's Women's History Month. For work, I have had to spend quite a bit of time researching events, partnerships and campaigns, which got me thinking about what it means, to me, to be a woman. My own thoughts on feminism and gender equality are fairly under developed. I am wary of anything labeled "feminist", but I nevertheless favor equality, equal rights, equal pay, equal opportunity. I have benefited from the burning bras and chest thumping so what exactly is my problem with the f-word?

I think I am wary of people who always bring gender into conversations and debates. It is really necessary to differentiate between being a successful woman rather than just being successful? And, while I will never be someone who is eager to throw gender into a discussion, I do think it is important to think about some of the unique issues we face because we are women--good and bad.

Does my sexiness upset you? Does it come as a surprise that I dance like I've got diamonds at the meeting of my thighs?- Maya Angelou

In an effort to develop my own sense of self as a woman, I have decided to compile a list of woman that I admire. This month, I will share my list with you as it grows and as my own sense of female identity develops. Want a sneak peak? Take a look at my Pinterest board 

Tomorrow is International Women's Day. What does it mean to be a woman? What type of women do you admire?

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